I love this idea below...great reminder! I know it is really hard to do, but just try a bit! We wouldn't have stress if we just didn't care so much right! :-) It is wonderful that we have big hearts, I wouldn't trade that for anything, but those same hearts have to be pampered and loved and feel safe & relaxed also. We can recharge them & go back and deal with what is stressing us again later. Hope you can find it useful! ******************** A lecturer was giving a lecture to his students on stress management. He raised a glass of water and asked the audience,
"How heavy do you think this glass of water is?"
The students' answers ranged from 20g to 500gm.
"It does not matter on the absolute weight. It depends on how long you hold it.
If I hold it for a minute, it is OK. If I hold it for an hour, I will have an ache in my right arm. If I hold it for a day, you will have to call an ambulance.
It is the exact same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes."
If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, we will not be able to carry on, the burden becoming increasingly heavier. What you have to do is to put the glass down, rest for a while before holding it up again.
We have to put down the burden periodically, so that we can be refreshed and are able to carry on.
So before you return home from work tonight, put the burden of work down. Don't carry it back home. You can pick it up tomorrow.
Whatever burdens you are having now on your shoulders, let it down for a moment if you can.
I was kicked out of my AOL Home I had for 3 years! I will try to get my blog looking pretty & cool as soon as possible.
Someone once told me I Think Too Much! Quite frankly, over time I think he just did not explain what he meant very well but it did make me think...can you really think too much. You can see my first entry on this...
So...here I think all I want & about whatever I want. Up to you whether you want to think along with me!